When it comes to dating, there are no hard and fast rules. It’s as unpredictable as a football game: it’s anyone’s game. But just like in a soccer game, there are also winners and losers in the dating arena. The following “Ten Golden Rules” are the dos and don’ts that will help you score a touchdown in the heart of the woman of her dreams.
1. Be a gentleman.
Chauvinism may be dead, but chivalry had better not be. Feminists or not, all women want a real good gentleman. This man may not always be opening doors or pulling chairs for his lady (although that would be nice too!), but he is ready to do everything in his power to ensure comfort and safety. of the. Women like men who care enough about them to show it, so
2. Try to look presentable.
Here’s the deal. It takes an average woman at least an hour to get ready for a date. It would be fair if a man at least made the effort to put on a clean collar. The way you present yourself not only tells your date what kind of person you are, but also shows that you respect them enough to make sure they don’t get seen in public with someone who looks like they just got out of bed.
3. Make an effort to smell good.
Please. Nobody likes to be with someone who smells bad. Women love it when men at least smell like laundry soap and not old gym socks. Enough talk.
4. Show your ambition.
As cliché as it may sound, women are drawn to men who exude a kind of stability or direction in life. Tell your date about your job, your realistic dreams (emphasis on the word “realistic”), and ambitions. Ladies appreciate men with drive and motivation instead of “cruise ships” that float like buoys on the waters of life.
5. Put your cell phone on silent mode.
Nothing dampens chemistry or conversation more than the beeping of a text or call every five minutes. That’s why cell phones have silent modes: so you can focus on your beautiful date. And don’t even think about responding to that text, unless you want your date to think you’d rather be somewhere else.
6. Don’t monopolize the conversation.
Don’t spend all night telling your date about last night’s football game. Ask her to tell you about herself, and listen carefully when she does. Unless you want to appear like a self-absorbed fool, give him a chance to talk.
7. Don’t invite your date to a burping contest.
Save the fascination of making big noises for nights out with the boys. If you want a goodnight kiss from a woman, then don’t act like a twelve year old.
8. Don’t look at or talk about other girls during a date.
A woman does not go on a date to hear about other women. So don’t look at other girls or mention your ex. Keep your eyes on the prize.
9. Pay the bill.
If she insists on half, then do it. But it’s always good to offer to pay first.
10. Call if you said you would.
Be a man of your word. He shows good character. And he always pays to be a gentleman.