Just as there are thoughts that one must not follow, there will also be impulses that must be ignored. As if one tried to satisfy every need that was within them, one would end up causing them a lot of trouble.
A big difference
For example, you may be in a position where you have a boss who treats you poorly and there may be times when you think about what it would be like to hurt him. Now, this does not mean that it is someone who likes to hurt people; it all boils down to this person will push them to the limit.
So when your boss behaves this way or when you think about how he treats you, your mind can fill with all kinds of destructive thoughts. And if one were to open up about what is going on inside them during these times, the people around them would find it hard to believe.
Covered
What this boils down to is that there is likely to be a side that one shows to the world and another side that stays within them. Having said that, one could reveal this side to their close friends and family.
But even if they do, it doesn’t mean they will talk about everything that goes on inside them. If she were to talk about his boss, she might say that she doesn’t get along with him and is thinking of leaving, for example.
No more
However, although one might think how they would like to do something to their boss, that does not mean that they will actually harm them. One way of looking at this would be to say that this is a perfectly normal response.
Ultimately, they will have been pushed to the limit and this will have caused their fight or survival instinct to surface. This is there to tell them that they are being understood and that something must be done about it.
The next step
You can pay attention to this information and do what you need to do to change your life. Perhaps ideally, they would have done something about it before they even began to think about harming them.
If one were to actually cause harm to the other person, it would show that this supposed lower part of them has taken over. The higher parts of your nature will have been disconnected and you will have lost the ability to behave like a conscious human being.
A lifestyle
And when someone has a tendency to physically harm other people; it is likely to show that this lower part of them is out of control. The part of their brain that is there to control or inhibit this part of them will not function as it should.
This can then be the difference between someone living in the world or ending up in prison. There are, of course, plenty of people who are like that who don’t end up in jail, for whatever reason.
another area
Something very similar to the previous example can happen when one is in a relationship. In this case, one could feel the need to go with another person, and this could be something that consumes him.
Once again, your mind will be facing a lot of pressure from the so-called lower parts of your nature, which means that you will probably find it difficult to think clearly. If they cannot step back, they will soon be in a position where they have cheated on their partner/wife.
No possibility
The very thing they had to do, which was to step back and reflect on what might happen if they cheat, would have been the last thing on their minds. A large part of them needed to feel different, and so they could not behave otherwise.
And, if someone is possessed in this way, it is to be expected that they will. So this will be no different than what happens when someone is addicted to something; they cannot be controlled.
The ideal
However, if you could take a step back and analyze why you felt the need to go with someone else, it could save you a lot of trouble later on. If they were to do this, they may feel suffocated in their relationship, and by going with someone else, it will allow them to feel free.
Alternatively, they may feel that their partner ignores them, and that going with someone else will be a way to get the attention they want. What this might show then is that the communication between them has broken down.
It’s not too late
Still, if one has only cheated on their partner once, it could make things worse if they do it again. Therefore, one could still save their relationship if he got the help that he needs.
If one needs to cheat in order to feel free, one can prove that one was suffocated during their early years. This would have prevented them from developing boundaries, and getting close to someone would have been associated as causing them to lose themselves.
Awareness
Whereas if one feels the need to go to another person for care, it could show that they feel rejected and abandoned. And this could show that your current relationship has caused pain from your first ears.
Thus, regardless of whether it is the former or the latter, your pain will have been triggered and you will lose the ability to act consciously. If one can relate to this and wants to change their life, it might be a good idea to work with a therapist or healer.