Ladies, what I’m about to tell you is the real deal. Forget all the books written by women because they have a lot of male friends, that’s right. If you have feelings for a guy but aren’t sure if the feeling is mutual, tell him. Express your desire to be in his company and spend time with him. If you are casually dating but what you really want is a total commitment, then let him know, talk to him, don’t scold him.
Pick the right time to do this, don’t just interrupt your moment by watching the big game and by no means attempt it in front of your friends. PLEASE don’t think that because you’re being assertive he’ll respect that, he might give in to keep the peace and in three hours he’ll probably have forgotten what happened, but the next time you’re unreasonable, he’ll all do it. come flooding in again. After all, you may not know it, and at one point he probably doesn’t, but the way you act when the relationship isn’t serious somehow sets the standard for when it is.
If you think your man isn’t taking you seriously, again let him know. Most men will get tired of a woman saying tell me what you think about this or that and when she does she probably wishes she hadn’t done it while sleeping next to the dog. Next time, your answers may be well practiced first.
Any good man will appreciate when his lady is forceful or demanding, but only at the right times. It’s like a sign of respect for each other, when you think it’s getting out of hand, let them know, but since it works well, don’t think you can do it to get what you’ve always wanted. Fairness and restraint is the key, if a man feels he is being told what to do 24/7 then he will think what the point is, but if he gives it when he is really worried about a problem , then it can’t go very far. incorrect.
Men and women are different mentally, I mean we have the same thoughts and desires but we carry them out for different reasons. Although this cannot be said of all of us, I believe it is true.