She used to get really wet when you had sex with her. But lately, he seems to have trouble getting wet. What can you do to get their juices flowing again?
Why do women experience decreased lubrication? There are many factors that can affect the female sex drive. Some factors are obvious, while others are definitely not. Age, life, energy level, and hormones all play a role in increasing female libido, and if one or more of those factors aren’t working well, your libido could plummet.
How to get it wet and how you can help
(1) Make her feel comfortable
A large part of a woman’s sexual satisfaction depends largely on her state of mind. She must feel sexy to feel sexual. If you’re not in the mood, find out what’s on your mind. It is good to open the door of communication to allow you to vent some frustrations of the day that will allow you to relax and let go. Also, you can tell that she is really upset with you and keeping your ears open and staying calm will guarantee a much more favorable response from her.
Instead of reacting to what she is not doing for you, think about what you can do for her. Something as simple as giving her your shoulder to cry on is enough. You can also get her a bottle of her favorite wine so she can relax over dinner. Well, getting a woman drunk can always make her horny and want to have sex. After dinner, you can give him a back or foot massage. When she is physically and mentally relaxed, you can start playing her. This will show her that you are a considerate lover who is more concerned with including her in sex than using her to get yours.
(2) Be patient during foreplay
Female lubrication begins with hormones that send signals to the brain, causing you to become sexually aroused enough to “wake up” your clitoris and vagina to be ready for sex. The inner and outer lips of the vagina will then swell. Later, the vaginal walls and lips, which have those little glands called vulvovaginals, will begin to secrete fluid to allow penetration.
Female arousal normally takes longer than male arousal, therefore foreplay is very important. Your brain needs to feel sexy in order for your body to feel sexy. Keep things slow and steady to allow her more non-sexual caresses, kisses, and strokes so that she becomes more fully aroused.
Go and kiss her whole body. Kissing and caressing two places at the same time generates great stimulation. When touching her, do not forget that a woman has many erogenous zones throughout her body that also crave attention. Feel free to rub, kiss, and even nibble on those neglected sexually sensitive areas on your cheeks, ears, nape, inner elbows, knees, and buttocks. Remember to take your time and read their body language. There are certain areas that may be more sensitive or sensitive to stimulation for her and you should spend more time and effort on them.
(3) Give him manual and oral stimulation before intercourse.
Start by turning her on with manual and / or oral clitoral stimulation. Make sure the clitoral shaft, clitoris and labia have plenty of action with your hand and tongue. A good move is to grab the skin around the clitoris and rub it.
Continue clitoral stimulation while searching for your G-spot. If you have trouble doing two things at once, you can hold a vibrator at the lower end of the vaginal opening which responds very well to stimulation. If the vibrations are too strong, you can place a towel or cloth between the vibrator and the vaginal opening to decrease the intensity.
How to stimulate the G-spot? Slightly bend two fingers with your palms facing up and then insert about two inches inward / upward from your vaginal opening. If you are not sure, ask if there is a specific point or area that gives you intense or pleasant sensations when massaged, which is your G-spot. When you feel yourself approaching orgasm, apply a firmer touch, if you enjoy it. Maintain a steady and steady rhythm until you reach orgasm. Then switch to a very gentle caress as you come down from your orgasm. If you experience multiple orgasms, your orgasms and ejaculations may become more intense and you will lubricate a lot. If she has an orgasm with your fingers inside her vagina, the vaginal muscles can squeeze them with great force and when this happens, do not pull them, but press gently.
(4) Have sex regularly
Frequent stroking of the clitoris and vulva will activate the nerve pathways that carry sexual stimulation to the brain. These nerves that are responsible for sexual arousal will weaken if there is little or no use for some time. Don’t just wait for the urge to come have sex. If we always waited for this to happen, some of us would never have sex again. Sometimes it is important to do it even if you are not in the mood. Once you start the ball rolling, the desire and arousal often follow. Therefore, having sex regularly will keep your juices flowing naturally.