Are you in a marriage where you have that sinking feeling … where you say my wife can’t stand me?

This is a terrible feeling. I know this because I had a time not long ago when I had the exact same feeling.

But I was able to fix it, and I know you can too.

Exactly what to do today if you say my wife can’t stand me

One of the things that happens all too often when a husband begins to feel that his wife cannot bear them or that he no longer loves them … is to panic.

Along with this panic, they often do something that is right … exactly WRONG!

You see, when you have this thought, or even your wife tells you that she can’t stand it, or that being around you makes her sick, or any of the terrible things a wife can say to hurt your feelings in a fit. out of anger or during a moment of indifference … suddenly you feel the need to try to change your mind.

You will do it by trying to make her see reason. You will tell her how much you love her. You will tell him how much it hurts to hear that. You will give her a list of all the great things you do for her.

Another thing that you could do instead … and that I’m guilty of … is that you will get mad. You will be angry because you feel like you have been unfairly hurt. Then you will start yelling and yelling, maybe insulting and saying how much you hate her! You will tell him that you cannot bear it either. Blah blah blah … a ton of things you’ll feel awful about later!

It’s about how you react when your wife can’t stand you … or at least says she can’t.

The truth is, if your wife can’t stand you, it is most likely simply because she is no longer attracted to you.

No, I don’t mean your appearance. It is okay if you have gained weight. Don’t go out and join a gym for that. Although it is always good to join a gym and take care of yourself. What I mean is that your wife is no longer attracted to you as a man. She is not attracted to the man you have become.

Chances are, with very good intentions trying to please your wife, you’ve become less of an alpha male (if you ever were to begin with) and more of a beta male that she unknowingly created out of you.

In doing so, you’ve lost the carnal attraction factor that drives not just your wife, but women, crazy. This is deeply embedded in your DNA. They are looking for a man who is a leader. A man who knows who he is, and actually a man who does NOT need her. Sounds crazy right?

In fact, it probably defies everything you’ve probably learned from your mother, from television, magazines, books, and of course, from your wife. But the proof lies in the fact of how your wife reacts when you start to become the alpha male she is attracted to to the core. And once that happens, you’ll never have to say that my wife can’t stand me again.